Happy Trails to a Beloved Friend & Volunteer

Ed Thomas lived life to the fullest, and when he made a commitment, this cowboy was in 100%.

This was evident in his 63 year marriage to Barbara, the love of his life, who he met when she was 15 and he was 16. Ed and Barbara were married in their late teens and soon after celebrated the birth of their two children, Debbie and Royce.

As newlyweds, Ed attended the University of Oregon, earning a degree in accounting, while Barbara worked in the home tending to the family. After graduation, he worked for Arthur Andersen for many years, then started his own CPA firm in the Bay Area.

Community engagement was fundamental to their lives. Their love of people and desire to make the world a better place led them to be involved in a myriad of organizations and causes. After retiring and moving to Nevada County in 2005, the Thomas’ became involved with many civic and charitable organizations and these “heart connections” were felt by everyone they touched!

One of Ed's many passions was Hospice of the Foothills, where he volunteered for 15 years. Ed learned a lot about death and dying in his role as a respite volunteer, giving family members a break from careviging; bereavement volunteer, listening to those who are grieving a loss; and dying vigil volunteer, being a

supportive bedside companion during the final hours of life. He and Barbara also became dear friends with staff through their engagement.

In August 2021, after receiving a terminal cancer diagnosis, Ed called Viv Tipton, Hospice of the Foothills Executive Director, letting her know that his next role at hospice would be as a patient. Soon the family was surrounded with the support and compassionate care they needed. “I thank heavens for hospice”, said Barbara.

Ed’s cancer soon made daily life difficult and he made the courageous decision to choose the end-of-life option rather than enduring pain, distress and loss of autonomy. His family was not initially onboard, however, Ed was emphatic that he had lived a full and happy life and was ready to go. After talking as a family, they agreed to respect and support Ed’s decision.

His final weeks were spent surrounded by countless friends, family and compassionate caregivers. “The house was so full of love, it got me through this very difficult time”, said Barbara.

On the morning of November 5, 2021, Ed knew he was quickly declining—it was time. He knew if he waited he would no longer be able to self-administer the prescribed aid-in-dying medication. The family gathered around Ed’s bedside, each with a glass of Dom Pérignon champagne (including Ed) to toast his departure from this life. They lifted their glasses while singing the old cowboy tune, “Happy Trails,” with tears in their eyes. Ed peacefully slipped away with Barbara by his side.

When some people die, the chasm they leave is massive. That is a life well lived.